What a difference our own attitude can make!
"It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house."
"He that keepeth his mouth keepeth his life: but he that openeth wide his lips shall have destruction." (Proverbs 13:3)
"If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man's religion is vain." (James 1:26)